HomeCategory: CultureWould one be happier been married or remaining single?
doctornana asked 3 weeks ago
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Edewor NanaEdewor Nana answered 2 days ago
Traditionally and culturally, marriage is the union between a man and woman. There are numerous empirical data supporting my definition of marriage. In every union, there are bound to be problems, marriage is not an exemption. In the good past, marriage was cheap and it comes with joy and satisfaction. Life and its events were relatively cheaper. Therefore, unions in the form of marriage had lesser challenges. But, as I debate from my side of the prism, marriage is under choke with globalization, technology, acculturation, exponential rise in the cost of living, lies, made-believe, distrust, how much can you bring to the table phenomenon, we are equal synthetic language, liberated women league, lazy men league and you name it. The aforementioned listing are infinitesimal elements of marriage sphere conundrum of our time. In addition, there are some nations laws where women target rich men (very rich men), lure them to marriage, few months later divorce them leaving with 50% of their wealth. What kind of senseless laws are these? I can understand if you and your wife have gone through the mountains and valleys of life, weathered all kind of storms together, unfortunately divorce crawls in. I have a good wife but, from what I am observing from close and afar right now, if I was single, I will remain single for a very long time. I was raised in a culture where your lovely wife serve you breakfast, lunch and dinner, the food digest very well. There were no report of indigestion. Now, the women throw the food at you even if you are the soul provider for the family, all in attempt to get back to her phone or TV show. Where did our sense of culture, true love, respect, caring and mutual understanding disappeared into? Ladies and Gentlemen, let's figure our the problem and fix it. Let's make marriage sweet and great again.